How to Boost Your Willpower



Boosting your willpower. I’m sharing some easy breezy ways to WILL your way to living your truth.

Whenever we “make up our minds” to change. Our brain sends signals to the body. Hey guys “we are going to start working out at 6am every morning”. Sounds great, right?

It’s never that simple, because the cells in our bodies are used to not working out. They’re more accustomed to sleeping in and pushing the snooze button. So our cells huddle up together, like a football team. Then they send send a message back up the spinal cord to your brain to get you back on your old habits. Then before you know it’s 6am and you’re hitting the snooze button saying “I’ll start tomorrow”.

Sound familiar?! Listen, I get it!

Since we are re-wiring ourselves we have to keep the temptation away to revert to those old behaviors. This means if you’re going for a healthier cleaner diet just don’t buy the bad stuff, if it’s not in your kitchen you’re a lot less likely to eat it. If you’re a shopaholic working to curb your spending then STAY AWAY FROM THE MALL and all online shopping carts! Personally, I unsubscribed from all my daily deal alerts. Much easier to save when you’re not finding the BEST DEAL EVER in your inbox every day.

After keeping our vices out of plain sight we need to hold tight to our vision and find a way to enjoy the process of transformation. This is where we get to tap back into our imagination and begin to visualize taking selfies on the beach in that bangin’ bikini, seeing all those zeros next to our name on the bank slip, or your names on the NY times best-seller list. Keeping your eyes on the prize is a great way to boost your willpower. Work that picture until it’s as clear as a glass of water.

Lastly, boost your body. Taking supplements, like ginseng, omega 3 and B-12. Are really good ways to make sure your body is ready to take you to the next level. I’ve had so many chats with my girlfriends about making the commitment to change. The main reason why they (sometimes, me too) can’t workout, start a new career or project is because they are tired. They don’t have the energy it takes to add something else to the to-do list. Whatever you do don’t leave this step out.

So let’s recap…

Because our body naturally wants things to stay the same we have to …

  • Stay away from temptation
  • Keep your Eyes on the Prize
  • Boost your body

Real talk, having a dip in your willpower is normal. Know that these tips will definitely help you keep the positivity party going…

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OMG!! Last week was so good. You ever have one of those weeks where they’re so much good stuff going on that you’re like, “Whoa! I wish every week was like this?”!

Wanted you to share a few things from last week in case you missed it! I launched Pearl Box Profiles. This project is really close to my heart. I feel as a culture we’re always celebrating, applauding, and liking the social media posts of the gems that have reached a pinnacle level of success.

Celebrating people once they’ve arrived is perfectly normal, but what about all the rest of us? Do we deserve a platform? Have we earned the right to share our stories, journeys, and path to progress? I say heck YES we do! Amazing pearls among us that are taking strides, making sacrifices, and living on purpose todo lo dia (everyday), deserve to be heard and highlighted too!


PBP will be doing just that. Every week you’ll get content (videos and posts) sharing stories from beautiful gems with different gifts, backgrounds, purposes and passions.

Last week’s gems

Check out The Natural Cole (post)

Check out Chance Cessna  (video)

Takeoff Thursday live call popped back on the scene with “Find Your Fire”. I don’t even want to tell  you much about it, but if you’re curious and you want to know how to “bring it” everyday of your life then you should listen. It’s real, and it’s full of energy backed soul-stirring goodness for you.

Hope you have an amazing week!

Oh btw…Food Fuel is coming up on this Takeoff Thursday! Get registered for access.



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What is Pretty?

My introduction to “Pretty” was on the Urban Bush Babes site, a series of black women from Milan and Paris.
Pretty is a digital postcard from women around the world, exploring how beauty standards vary from country to country. Produced by, a place created to celebrate and inspire health, versatility, and the beauty of black hair.
Growing up in a small town down south, I wasn’t fully aware of the different cultures that existed throughout the world. I knew about black people, white people, what i saw on television, and oh let’s not forget the Asians that owned the store downtown and the restaurant across town.
I was always curious to know how they settled in a town with a population of 14,000 people. I swear moms had me going to the store at least once a week, guess I missed the opportunity to find out.
It wasn’t until I attended a university two hours from my hometown, that I begin to learn about different cultures. There were people from everywhere India, China, Africa, and other states living on campus and in my class. Looking back, I should have been open minded and connected more, but I was in an unknown world living in my own box.
I guess that’s why I’m so intrigued by these women from Milan and Paris expressing their thoughts and views about their culture, being a black woman, and defining pretty. I was surprised to hear that black hair products such as relaxers invaded the shelves in Paris stores only ten years ago.
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What’s so important about Finding Your Fire?

FYFWhat’s so important about Finding your Fire? Your life matters and you were planted here for a purpose. Your mission should you decide to accept it is to live and be that purpose everyday.

Truth is, we are inundated daily with distractions and responsibilities that can keep us out of touch with our “inner-spiration“. Our daily grinds can keep our minds occupied with to-do lists, emails, calls, and errands to run. Once you’re done will all that you might feel like you’ve just run out of fuel.

Have you ever had a vision or goal, but you were too exhausted to pursue it? Both mentally and physically running on empty.

Don’t you hate that?! You’ve got the vision, but bringing it to life can feel like trying to make the Olympic team. #daunting 

I get it! Until I started practicing what I preached. I was the same way, too drained to work consistently for my dreams.

There were times when my efforts were more like a roller coaster ride. I would be full throttle one minute. Then all of the sudden my energy & efforts would plummet like the stock market in 2008! When I finally took the leap to stop talking about it and start being about it.

The “game” changed for me. #gamechanger

This FREE live call is going to be far more interactive and fun than anything I’ve E-V-E-R done before! It’s going to be a fun-filled hour (we may go over in the Q & A, but that’s ok!). Let’s party with a purpose!

I’ll not only share the game changing tips I’ve learned from the best of the best in the self-development world. More importantly, for you I’m going to break it down into nice little chunks that you can take and make them work in your life the NEXT day. #instantgratification

No more waiting for months to see results! Think of it as the easy and simple way to not only find your FIRE, but keeping those flames going.

When is it all going down? Great question.

Thursday, July 9th at 8pm est

Want to get in on it? Here’s how…

  1. Get registered
  2. Be sure to mark your calendar
  3. Grab a notebook (you’ll definitely want to take notes)
  4. Be open minded

That’s it! Easy enough, right? I can’t wait to connect and share these game-changing tips with you!

BTW…please note that there will be hip-hop and dancing too 😉


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Know Your Self Worth

Pretty Motivated Know Your Worth
I used to look for my worth in relationships with men, in accomplishments, in clothes, shoes, and handbags. I would go to the mall swiping my card as if I could buy my worth. It all worked for a while. Then, something would happen and I’d find myself maxed out and emotionally bankrupt.
They say no pain, no gain. Well, all that pain. All those disappointments pushed me. The pain from feeling like I wasn’t enough pushed me to want a breakthrough. To fight for freedom from my emotional struggles. To move above and beyond my emotional limitations. I wasn’t just disappointed in other people that I’d felt let me down. Mostly, I was disappointed in myself.
Deep down I knew I was worth more than I was giving myself credit for. And I knew that I had some serious healing work to go through. I had to get over hurts from my past. I have to forgive myself for the mistakes that I’ve made in my search for self worth.
Self worth comes from self. Duh?! I know, this seems like common sense. Unfortunately, so many of us walk around waiting for people and conditions to validate our worth. You may be waiting for that stamp of approval to say “I’m worth it!”. Significant others, jobs, titles, social media likes, and money don’t make you worthy.
You are already worth it! The simple idea that you’re breathing says that some force that is larger, stronger, bigger and more powerful than any human believes you are worth life. No matter what you’ve done or what’s been done to you. You are always worthy. It’s not something you earn. You’re born this way!
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